What to Do When You’re Told You’re “Not Professional Enough” at Work

Decoding “Not Professional Enough” in the Workplace: What It Really Means and How to Respond

Have you ever been told you’re “not professional enough” at work? It’s a phrase that’s thrown around a lot, but what does it really mean? And why is it so often used to target people of color, women, and other marginalized groups?

In this blog post, we’ll decode the hidden meanings behind the phrase “not professional enough” and explore how to respond if you’re ever targeted with it.

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Examples of “not professional enough” bias in the workplace

Here are a few examples of how the phrase “not professional enough” can be used to mask bias in the workplace:

  • Fashion choices: A Black woman is told she can’t wear her natural hair to work because it’s “not professional.”
  • Language and accent: A man with a foreign accent is told he needs to “improve his English” in order to be more professional.
  • Cultural misunderstandings: A woman from a different culture is told she’s “not professional” because she doesn’t shake hands during meetings.

As you can see, the phrase “not professional enough” can be used to target a wide range of people for arbitrary reasons. It’s important to remember that there is no one definition of professionalism. What’s considered “professional” can vary widely from culture to culture and from company to company.

Why is the phrase “not professional enough” used so often?

There are a few reasons why the phrase “not professional enough” is so often used in the workplace:

  • Unconscious bias: People often have unconscious biases against people who are different from them. This can lead them to make assumptions about people’s professionalism based on their race, gender, accent, or other factors.
  • Microaggressions: Microaggressions are subtle forms of discrimination that can be used to undermine and marginalize people of color, women, and other marginalized groups. The phrase “not professional enough” can be used as a microaggression to make people feel like they don’t belong in the workplace.
  • Power dynamics: People in positions of power often use the phrase “not professional enough” to maintain their dominance and control over others. For example, a manager might use this phrase to justify passing over a qualified employee for a promotion.

How to respond if you’re told you’re “not professional enough”

If you’re ever told you’re “not professional enough” at work, it’s important to remember that the problem is not with you. The problem is with the person who is making the comment.

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Here are a few things you can do if you’re ever targeted with this phrase:

  • Stay calm and professional. It can be difficult to stay calm when someone is attacking you, but it’s important to do so. If you get angry or emotional, it will only give the other person ammunition.
  • Ask for clarification. Ask the person who made the comment to define what they mean by “not professional enough.” This will put them on the spot and force them to explain their reasoning.
  • Educate the other person. If the other person is simply unaware of their bias, you can try to educate them about the issue. Explain to them that there is no one definition of professionalism and that there is nothing wrong with your appearance, accent, or cultural norms.
  • Report the incident to HR. If the person who made the comment is your manager or another person in a position of power, you should report the incident to HR. HR has a responsibility to investigate and address workplace discrimination.

Remember, you have rights. If you’re being discriminated against at work, you have rights. You can file a complaint with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) or with your state’s labor agency. You may also be able to file a lawsuit against your employer.

Conclusion

The phrase “not professional enough” is often used to mask bias in the workplace. It’s important to be aware of this and to know how to respond if you’re ever targeted with this phrase. If you’re told you’re “not professional enough,” remember that the problem is not with you. The problem is with the person who is making the comment. You have rights, and you don’t have to tolerate discrimination in the workplace.

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